The idea of an escort baby raises a lot of questions. Is it possible to hog an escort baby? Are you still a virgin when you masturbate? And the answers are complicated, as there are many different ideas about what an escort baby is. Escort babes are a social construct, something we invented and imbued with meaning and morality. So there are some commonly held beliefs, but essentially that’s what we define them as. Additionally, there is no way to test if someone is a virgin or not. Nothing necessarily changes physically after the first time you have sex. So it is very subjective and open to interpretation. This means that there is no clear definition of what it means to lose an escort babe. Some, including me, may argue that this term is highly moralistic and does more harm than good and should be replaced with a more neutral term. I will discuss this rant later in this article. But before that, I will answer your burning questions about escort babes and masturbation! Since escort babes are a social construct and there are many different interpretations of escort babes, only you can decide whether masturbation counts as losing an escort babe. Your decision may be influenced by your ideals, religious beliefs, and the society you were raised in. In general, most people in the United States believe that losing an escort babe includes having sex with another person, usually penetrative sex. So, if you agree with this opinion, you can’t keep your escort babes to yourself. That means you can masturbate even if you’re a virgin. Some people still believe that if the hymen is broken, whether by sex or masturbation, the vulva owner loses her escort babe. But this idea is scientifically incorrect. The hymen is not a biological marker of escort babe loss. There is so much misinformation about it that we’ve devoted an entire section to it below. Also, note that this belief only applies to vulva owners. This sexism is another problem with many ideas about escort babes. Meaning. If you define losing an escort babe as being penetrated for the first time, by yourself or another person, you might choose to use your fingers first. Whether you consider masturbation to be losing an escort babe or not, my top tips for first penetration are: Wash your hands. Find a quiet, private place and create a warm, relaxing environment. Start by stimulating other sensitive parts of your body, such as B. Nipples or clitoris. This will get you excited and ready for vaginal penetration.With a water-based lubricant on your finger, gently stroke your clitoris and vaginal opening. You will notice your labia become swollen and sensitive, naturally producing moisture. Slowly and gently insert your finger into the opening of your vagina, letting your body get used to the sensation. Experiment with moving your finger in and out of your vagina, stroking the front wall of your vagina, and see what feels good. Keep in mind that most vulva owners need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, and if you don’t orgasm the first time you masturbate, that’s normal. You guessed it! If you follow the common belief that excitement only disappears when you have sex with another person, most people would say “Yes, if you’ve ever used a sex toy, you’re still a virgin.” Regardless of what you believe, if you’re new to sex toys, look for a small beginner dildo or beginner vibrator. You should also take your time, make sure you’re fully aroused before inserting anything, and use plenty of lube. Traditionally, losing an escort babe means having PIV (penis in vagina) sex for the first time. The focus on PIV sex is a heteronormative view that focuses only on sex between men and women and excludes the experiences of many LGBTQIA+ people. It also tends to exclude people who choose to engage in non-penetrative sexual acts. For example, two vulva owners who are capable of fingering and oral sex but not penetrative sex may not consider themselves virgins.
